9 questions to ask your new lover: what you were afraid to ask, but always wanted to know

Summary:

I find this article very interesting and good. It explains what girls or women should do when dating a guy. It asks all the questions that you want to know the answer of, but are afraid of the answer that one might give. “Is he or she the one for you? What is the wildest thing he's ever done? How many sex partners has he had? Is he broke or head over heels in debt? Has he ever been arrested? And more importantly, how can you be sure?” The article says that knowing those answers it can protect ones health. Dr. Lauren Durant who is a clinical psychologist and relationship expert in Durham, N.C. says if a guy runs away from your questions, don't get discouraged. She says it is not hard to find a good man. She also says a woman should ask all the questions she want to in first three months of dating arranged in from most invasive to least invasive questions. In the article Paula Williams said that there was a time she was afraid of asking the tough questions, put she has got positive results from men by being more upfront.

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Personal Response:

I think this was a really good article. I agree with the writer that if you want to know the answer of all the questions you should also be prepared to answer those for yourself. I also think that you should ask all the questions you want to ask ASAP so that you will know if that is the person for you or not before you give your heart to someone. That way you will not have broken heart if you had to let someone go because of something you find out when it is way pass the point of getting to know.